Is blaming to hold a person to perceived faults or merely invented for perorative purposes? By no means a clear concept of concensus where responsibility lies is often far from clear. For example, when a person has commited to the responsibilty to buy whereby someone has told him/her the exact information. Unfortunately,the fault resides within the person who gave the information to the person who is responsible to buy the stuff.
I mean if the person geniunely wants to get better but yet the family and friends are so non-compassionate, ignorant, and defensive and highly sensitive. Insisting if the person wants to blame anyone,it should be themselves. They look away my sense of wholeness without thinking or giving me a chance to explain. Is it a right choice/decision for them not allowing me to say a word? I let those words,suggested by others and conjured from within,undermine my sense of worth and debilitate my capacity to grow intellectually and emotionally. There are ways and strategies to intervene, but the ultimate decisions to end one's decision is very easy.
